Courses built from the books our authors have already written. Go at your own pace, download every file, and keep it.
Stop Having the Same Argument

Most couples do not have twenty arguments. They have one argument, wearing twenty different costumes.
Somebody leaves a cup by the sink, and ten minutes later you are both saying things you do not mean. The cup is not the problem. The cup is the spark.
Five lessons on naming the argument you keep having, interrupting it inside the first two minutes, and closing it properly instead of leaving it open.
It works if you do it together. It works just as well if you are the only one trying, which is how most people use it. Three of the five lessons are about what you do, so you do not need your partner’s agreement to start.
By Evelyn A. Stonebridge, from her book Relationship Conflict Resolution.
- Five video lessons, about 31 minutes in total
- The same five lessons as audio, for the car or a walk
- An eight-page printable workbook
- A seven-day practice track
- One payment of $37. Not a subscription
How our courses work
Pay once, and we email you your own link, normally within a minute.
Everything sits on one page. Lessons play in your browser, and every file downloads if you would rather keep it: video, audio, and the workbook as a PDF. Nothing to install, no account to create.
Checkout is handled by Stripe. If a course is not for you, ask for a refund within 30 days and you will get one.
These are self-study courses, which means education rather than treatment. There is no live element, no coaching call, and nobody on the other end reading what you write in the workbook.
Built from the books
Stop Having the Same Argument comes from Relationship Conflict Resolution, and brings in the sixty second bridge from The MODE Switch. The method is the book’s, cut down to what you can practice in a week.
If you would rather read first, all eleven of Evelyn A. Stonebridge’s books are listed on her author page.